Happy Singleton :)

I am so happy I am part of the single community right now.

I recently realised that guys just aren't worth my time right now. They confuse me way too much. They send you all these mixed messages and when you try to get to the bottom of them they just shut you down. As soon as you ask where you stand with them they automatically think you want to be in a relationship with them. I'm sorry but not all girls want to be in a relationship and are quite content in just having some fun and keeping things casual. If guys took the time or just grew some balls to ask what the girl/woman is looking for then there wouldn't be all this confusion over where you stood with each other. If he says he's not looking for anything serious but she says she is, then the issue is surely resolved there and then, i.e. calling it quits. Maybe both say they want to keep things casual? Then that's cool, its fine. That means you don't have to be in a relationship and also that you wont be sleeping around because you have someone who can be all those people instead haha!

However, if he/she asks questions which imply they maybe want something more then obviously it is going to get you thinking. The things is though, why do they ask those questions if they're not looking for anything serious..? For example, why say that you want to spend the next day in bed with me if in the morning you ask me to leave? Why ask me if I would consider going on the pill? *Yeah of course I would consider it if this was going to become a regular thing but if not then there is no point.* Why text me implying you'd like to meet again then shut me down when we bump into each other on a night out? Please tell me I'm not the only one who would find this confusing??
This goes for guys and girls by the way!

Anyway, what ever that short part of my life was, it is over now. I'm not even angry or upset about it and simply because I have no reason to be. I'm happy right now and I don't see why it should be potentially ruined by someone. Woooo! :)

looby-loo x